We Moved to Kentucky

Well everything was going good we drove here and we moved into our house we got a cute little chocolate lab name K.C. and then when i thought everything was going GOOD I find out Nate is getting deployed. grrr way does this stuff always happen when everything is going good in my life. and now I'm really confused should i stay here in Kentucky or go home? if i go home ill have family but if I stay here I can meet Friends keep my KC and keep my house. and in July we get a brand New House with a garage, I will lose it if go home. hmmmm.... I hate making big decisions. what should I do. it will be 9 Months he gets home in December. :(